There’s something interesting and special about my birthday.
When I was a child growing up with my siblings our birthdays were never celebrated. Not because it wasn’t of importance but because we all grew up impoverished. I look back and laugh out loud because not only was my birthday never celebrated, but our mother had this tendency to sometimes forget or mix our birthday months and years. It was hilarious but that’s what happen when you’re a single parent with a quiver full. God bless my wonderful mama!

The funniest thing is, not so long ago I took a good look at my birth certificate and noticed that the “year I was born” was not the same “year I was registered”. Very odd, right? I called up my mama who clarified the matter. She told me that back in her day she was unable to get me registered because she didn’t have the money to pay at the time for my registration of birth. That’s due to the fact that I was born at home. As it so happens, I was registered two years after I came of the womb. I laugh whenever I think on it, because sometimes I think God wants to humor me. When I think about the many ODD things about my life, I praise God for them. He knows best.

With that said, as I got older, deep down inside, I would desire for and hope for my birthdays to be celebrated. But the fact is I was away from home and had no one to truly celebrate with me. Which brings me to the point of why I wanted to share this birthday story of hope with anyone who ever had a desire or a hope buried deep down. I encourage you to keep hoping and praying, don’t give up!


One day in January of 2002 I wrote down my New Year’s goals and my dreams. I was reading of how The Lord instructed Habakkuk to write down the vision (Habakkuk 2:2)
“And the LORD answered me, and said, Write the vision, and make it plain upon tables, that he may run that readeth it.” So, I decided to write mine as well. One of my dream was to receive a HUSBAND as a birthday gift. Crazy right!? I wrote it down and I started to pray and make preparation to receive my birthday gift.

Come October every single year from 2002 I’ve being expecting my gift to arrive. On my birthdays every year, if I was home I would wake up and thank the Lord, get dressed, go to the photo studio and take some pics. Then I’d go to one of my favorite restaurants like Applebee’s; buy myself a nice meal “while I wait with expectancy”. I made sure to look my very best; after all, I didn’t know when God would decide to send my present. When I get done, I would walk down the street with a big infectious smile on my face. Once I got close to home, I’d go to my favorite flower shop and buy myself a nice bouquet of flowers. I got home and vase it and I’m still smiling because I believe that God has not forgotten his daughter’s birthday.
Please note I did this for 13 years. The 12 years I waited God was preparing for one of the best birthday present I’ve ever received. So if there are things you’ve being praying and believing God for don’t give up on them because God has not forgotten you my dear ones.

In 2012, God had made special arrangement for me to receive this special gift but I still wasn’t completely ready. The package was hand-picked and ready to be delivered but He had to make sure I was completely whole and completely ready to receive it.

In January 2013, I wrote down my goals and dreams, as usual, and continued to pray and exercise my faith over them. And drum roll everyone… On April 7, 2013 at 6:20PM to be precise, while I was sleeping I was awoken and nudged by my heavenly Father who instructed me to go and receive my birthday present in the person of Jacob Nimocks! He was well packaged, signed, and delivered to Kacey in New York. Full story coming in my book.


Dear ones, dearly beloved, God can do anything. Do you believe he can? He knows where you are and what you have need of. TRUST IN GOD AND TRUST AND WAIT. He’s faithful.

Please remember that, “The Lord will perfect that which concerneth you: thy mercy, O Lord, endureth for ever: forsake not the works of thine own hands.” (Psalms 138:8).

Your sister in Christ.💕

                  ~~~~~~~~~Kacey Nimocks~~~~~~~~

P.S. by the way guys, the gift came six months early but right on time.



~~~~~~~~~~~PROVERBS 18:22~~~~~~~~~~~~

Dearly Beloved, according to author of Proverbs,

“Whoso findeth a wife finds a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.”



I wanted to encourage your hearts on the matter of “Are you a good thing?” The word of God clearly states he who finds a WIFE not a HUSBANDS (don’t get me wrong, a husband is a good thing too😉!) finds a good thing. Therefore, you shouldn’t be out looking or searching for Mr. Right. Doing that, my friends, is backwards.

In Genesis chapter 2:24 and Matthew 19:5, “Therefore shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife.”My precious lovelies, I want you to notice the pattern here; as you can clearly see that God is the one who gives man that responsibility, function or impulse. The code of decorum is for Man to make the first move.

He will find you wherever you are. God will allow your path to intertwine. I promise you that He will permit it. I’m a living testimony…….. Wherever you are on this planet God will allow both of you to cross paths, and often time in the most extraordinary ways. It makes me smile as I reminisce about how it all happened for me. Praise the awesome power of God!

Lovelies, this will happen because its innate; It’s a built-in natural instinct. It’s part of man’s characteristics; It’s wired in man’s DNA to be HUNTERS.img_1623


Recently I had the opportunity to sit down and chat with some single women and I find that every one of them either starts or ends each other’s sentences the same way, here we go! “I can’t FIND nobody, I just can’t FIND anyone.”This right here is where the problems lies. When I was single, I can remember talking to the Lord out of ignorance and saying the same thing, “LORD I CAN’T FIND ANYONE”! He never gave you that responsibility to find someone Ladies, NO!


Beloved, one of the real reason you get so tired, frustrated, worn out, discouraged and defeated is because you’re out there looking. Yes, I said it! Sorry, but I’m not going to sugarcoat what the truth is. When you set out to do the FINDING or the LOOKING it goes totally against what the word of God teaches.


That is just backwards sisters. And I know you’ve heard this a hundred times over. Yes, it might sound antiquated but it’s still true and relevant. Yes, it might seem like a beauty contest out there where everyone is putting themselves up to be marketed on the altar of compromise. They are flaunting it all to prove who’s a better grab. But while waiting on God, dear ones please don’t ever lower your standards or values if anything bring them much higher. All that I want you to bear in mind is this one thing, “GOD MADE MAN IN IS OWN IMAGE AND LIKENESS; THEY ARE STILL WIRED TO BE THE HUNTER” Yesterday, today and forever.


It doesn’t matter how much society dictates to you ladies that the “role is now switched” whereby signifying that it’s now okay for you to become the hunter. Real women never chase; what real women do is get so lost in God that any man who desires to find her is going to need a spiritual GPS; you will not do such a thing. Sadly, a whole lot of women have made up in their minds “I’m just gonna get out there and find me a man.” But ladies please be reminded that this order will never work. Men are wired to hunt, chase, and protect their families from the beginning of times. So pretty please let’s take a step back and wait. Again I say wait on the Lord and let the man he has ordained for your life have a chance; let him SEEK and HUNT you down. It’s still the best and most romantic way, Wink wink!

Here’s what you should be doing: becoming a good thing. Stay tuned for part two.

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Your sister in Christ💕


Strengthen the things that remains: Rev. 3:2

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Kacey Nimocks~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~